Well-Meaning Pieces of “Divorce Advice” that will save you time, heartache and money
January 12, 2019
Step One in Well-Meaning Advice
Number One: Choose the right divorce process for your specific circumstances.
What does Child Support cover?
September 7, 2018
What is included? What is excluded?
Filing for Divorce in Connecticut, can you employ a mediator?
June 10, 2018When filing for divorce in Connecticut, a couple seeking a peaceful, amicable divorce, and who are committed to staying out of Court, can utilize the services of a neutral attorney-mediator to file for divorce or legal separation.
Is a Happy Marriage in the future for Prince Harry and Megan?
May 24, 2018
For Meg and Harry, this marriage may work. They have chemistry to burn, lots of projects, goals and values in common. Happily ever after is possible.
The key values to consider are:
Collaborative Mediation in Divorce
May 3, 2018
Separate and Divorce Amicably
Here are some important steps in ending the cycle of conflict when you divorce.
Unresolved conflict brings clients to the Divorce Process. You need to defuse the conflict first to have a divorce be supportive rather than destructive. Accepting that there are two people with very different, yet valid, perspectives is just the start. To learn how to do this, let’s look at what creates and destroys love in relationships.
7 Key Characteristics of an Effective Divorce Mediator. Self Determination and Neutrality.
March 21, 2018
1. A Divorce Mediator must be empathetic and an avid listener.
How is the amount of child support and alimony determined in Connecticut?
February 7, 2018In a divorce, you'll hear the phrases "maintain a lifestyle to which your family is accustomed" and "reasonable needs." There's an inherent conflict for divorcing couples between the concepts of lifestyle and reasonable needs. The cost to meet the reasonable needs of your family may be much different than the cost of your lifestyle.
What happens to debt in a divorce?
December 28, 2017For many families, divorce is an opportunity for a financial fresh start. During the divorce process, we must address the debt and how the debt is paid. Debt really does stink. Unfortunately, most of us have more debt than we'd like. How do you get rid of debt in a divorce? In my search for answers I've come across several services that might help. Check them out if debt is bringing you down.
Income and Child Support in Connecticut
September 17, 2017How is child support determined in the State of Connecticut and what is considered Income for purpuses of Child Support. The child-support guideline is just that. A guideline. First, we need to look carefully at the parties income. What is mom's gross income per year? What is dad's gross income per year? We look at most recent income statements, last year's tax returns, and my absolute favorite, social security statements.
Child Support, Alimony and Taxes
September 17, 2017Many divorcing spouses in Connecticut or clients seeking a legal separation whether in the New Haven Court, Hartford Court, New Britain or Tolland, or any other Connecticut Court, ask a variety of tax-related divorce questions. Is Alimony and Child Support taxable?