Selling your house before a divorce

July 3, 2019

Do I need to Sell my house first, before I finalized and reach an agreement with my soon to be Ex?

The short answer is NO.


Divorce and Emotions

May 17, 2019

Take great care of yourself, now more than ever. Manage your emotions, manage your health.

Step Five of Well-Meaning Advice

"The world is a tragedy to those who feel, but a comedy to those who think."
― Horace Walpole


Think long-term and think strategically; create a marriage dissolution plan.

April 26, 2019

Step Four of Well-Meaning Advice

Stay focused on your focus.  Be open to change.


How to Choose a Divorce Lawyer

March 23, 2019

Choose the "right" divorce professionals for your toolbox. Use your toolbox appropriately.

Step Three in Well-Meaning Advice


Prepare all financial records and be organized for the entire divorce process

February 23, 2019

Step Two in Well-Meaning Advice

Once you’ve decided on the process of divorce, think inventory first. In my office, we have a process written on the wall as a reminder for all divorce families.


Well-Meaning Pieces of “Divorce Advice” that will save you time, heartache and money

January 12, 2019

Step One in Well-Meaning Advice

Number One: Choose the right divorce process for your specific circumstances.


What does Child Support cover?

September 7, 2018


What is included? What is excluded?


Filing for Divorce in Connecticut, can you employ a mediator?

June 10, 2018

When filing for divorce in Connecticut, a couple seeking a peaceful, amicable divorce, and who are committed to staying out of Court, can utilize the services of a neutral attorney-mediator to file for divorce or legal separation.

Is a Happy Marriage in the future for Prince Harry and Megan?

May 24, 2018

For Meg and Harry, this marriage may work.  They have chemistry to burn, lots of projects, goals and values in common.  Happily ever after is possible.

The key values to consider are:


Collaborative Mediation in Divorce

May 3, 2018

Separate and Divorce Amicably

Here are some important steps in ending the cycle of conflict when you divorce.

Unresolved conflict brings clients to the Divorce Process. You need to defuse the conflict first to have a divorce be supportive rather than destructive. Accepting that there are two people with very different, yet valid, perspectives is just the start. To learn how to do this, let’s look at what creates and destroys love in relationships.