There are two general approaches to negotiation. One is called “positional negotiation,” and the other is called “interest-based” negotiation. People may use both interest-based and positional negotiation approaches at different
Before Starting The Mediation Process: Items For Consideration
Before beginning the divorce mediation process, there are a number of items one should consider. Even if you don’t consult with a review attorney or financial professional before the divorce
Reaching Mediation Agreements
When spouses reach a mediation agreement, the attorney-mediator typically drafts the first draft of the parties’ agreement. This mediation agreement is a contract. The best divorce mediators strongly encourage spouses
Privacy in Divorce Mediation
In Connecticut, there are rules providing that divorce mediation is a confidential process, meaning that all communications made during a mediation session by any spouse, whether in a joint session
What is Divorce Mediation?
The mediation process in Connecticut and many other states is used to help settle many different types of cases, including, for example, divorce along with other family disputes, disputes among
Selling your house before a divorce
Do I need to sell my house first, before I finalized and reach an agreement with my soon to be Ex? The short answer is NO. The house is one
Divorce and Emotions
Take great care of yourself, now more than ever. Manage your emotions, manage your health. Step Five of Well-Meaning Advice “The world is a tragedy to those who feel, but
Think Long-term. Create a Marriage Dissolution Plan
Step Four of Well-Meaning Advice Stay focused on your focus. Be open to change. Whether you’ve been married 15, 20, or 30 years, unfortunately, your marriage is ending, and divorce is
How to Choose a Divorce Lawyer
Choose the “right” divorce professionals for your toolbox. Use your toolbox appropriately. Step Three in Well-Meaning Advice Divorce is a process. Like any process, it has a beginning, a middle,
Prepare all financial records and be organized for the entire divorce process
Step Two in Well-Meaning Advice: Financial Records Once you’ve decided on the process of divorce, think inventory first. In my office, we have a process written on the wall as